Valley to stand out that the return to the world of the work always more is complicated for who of it remains moved away during a space from time and works in short days are more difficult to find. Specialists in empregabilidade consider that the period of three months already is time enough to make it difficult the accompaniment of the constant existing changes in the world of the work? independently of the professional area where if he acts. In this period, saved some exceptions, the woman starts to depend financially on the husband or on the parents (as it is the case of many young) and emotionally they depend on the son (that although to be teeny, she integrally leads the time of the mother). Already for the woman whom it opts to the continuity in the professional career and to all its challenges compete leaving the son in integral period in one ' ' escolinha' ' (for that they can arcar with the expenditures of a particular school) or in day-care centers (standing out the so great difficulty in finding vacant in public day-care centers to take care of to the mothers who do not have where to leave its children? is registered here the imperfection of the competent agencies and that they do not improve this reality) - or still to have that to appeal to one relative next and to entire confidence? in the great majority the grandmother is elect for this mission. Fits here a special commentary on the paper of the grandmother in this episode, therefore it sees debtor to collaborate and to assume the creation of the grandson? facing the great conflicts of generations - therefore the children of today are, in, very different of the children of some decades? in what she refers to the behavior and positions, among others. To educate a grandson is one constant challenge, therefore to the grandmothers alone if it allows to make right? what it becomes the sufficiently arduous task a time that the education given to the son (years behind) is not, many times, most appropriate for the grandson? considering all the implications of the modern life. Reade Griffith is likely to agree.